I celebrated the first anniversary of my divorce in March. So here is the scoop.
Cheating, proof of cheating won't help you in the divorce. All it does is prove the relationship was in bad shape. As they say, you can't steal a happy customer.
If you need to do something constructive,
I suggest you gather all financial documents to ensure an equitable distribution of marital assets.
Sell the house! I got the house, and the market dropped since it was valued, so I will loose $40,000 or more if I sell now. The taxes are high, so I am really trying to sell.
And, no. Anymore than the content of your text messages, if deleted, are available to you or anyone else. That is private and not saved by the cell carrier.
Cheating, proof of cheating won't help you in the divorce. All it does is prove the relationship was in bad shape. As they say, you can't steal a happy customer.
If you need to do something constructive,
I suggest you gather all financial documents to ensure an equitable distribution of marital assets.
Sell the house! I got the house, and the market dropped since it was valued, so I will loose $40,000 or more if I sell now. The taxes are high, so I am really trying to sell.
And, no. Anymore than the content of your text messages, if deleted, are available to you or anyone else. That is private and not saved by the cell carrier.